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Scared to let my son play
By Phil Rothfield
February 23, 2010 12:00AM
MY SON has just signed up to play rugby league in the Sutherland Shire and I'm frightened.
He's six years of age and will play in the Cronulla juniors. Last winter he played soccer for the local Lilli Pilli club and I was hoping he would stick with it for one reason only - there's less chance of him getting injured.
But his heroes in life are Luke Covell, Paul Gallen, Trent Barrett and Blake Ferguson.
In pouring rain he insisted I take him to the Sharks trial against Manly two Friday nights ago.
At fulltime he got in a line with the rest of the kids at the players tunnel and high-fived his heroes as they walked off.
We bought him Jarryd Hayne's yellow boots last week, which he took to bed with him. He dreams of being a Shark himself one day and runs around the house impersonating Ray Warren's voice with Cronulla winning a Grand Final. (Poor kid.)
He has rarely got a rugby league ball out of his hands at home and takes one to school every day.
I guess I shouldn't be worried ... but I am. Like any parent, I think my Jack is the most beautiful little boy on the planet.
I've tried many times to talk him out of playing but as parents, my wife and I always said our children would choose what sports they wanted to play and we wouldn't stand in their way.
I can't stand the thought of him getting hurt. Or, on the other hand, I sometimes find myself hoping he might get a couple of decent bumps early on and then decide soccer was more his go.
Call me a wuss, but I worry about him barging in to make a tackle and breaking his neck. Or diving on a loose ball and getting an accidental kick in the head.
If he was playing against boys his own size and weight, I wouldn't be so concerned.
This debate over juniors playing in weight divisions should have been addressed a long time ago.
It's a fact of life that Polynesian kids develop muscle, body shape and size earlier than Anglo-Saxon children. You've got 25kg kids running around the park against boys twice their size.
And don't get me wrong - this is not a racist issue against the Polynesian boys, because without them we wouldn't have an NRL. The two best and most exciting ball players in the competition are Benji Marshall and Feleti Mateo. Both are Polynesians.
The game needs them ... but in the right weight division, at least in the development years.