Long Suffering Sharkie
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I accept that during any given match that refereeing decisions will sometimes be unfavourable or favourable. That on some occasions there will be a bit more of the former than the latter. Certainly in this game the refereeing was lopsidedly against us particularly in regards to JWH.
Could we have controlled that though? Did any amount of complaining by Gallen on the field and Flanagan off the field alter this reality? Could it? No. Were they morally in the right? Yes. Did it achieve anything? No. We're not trading in the ideal world, we're dealing in the real world.
Rafael Nadal in his loss to Ferrer in the AO was asked three or four times to blame his knee injury for that outcome. He refused to remotely buy into it (he looked as if he wanted to throttle the journos) and gave unqualified credit to the opponent Ferrer for having outplayed him. Frankly his injury gave him no chance of victory. However, by placing a 100% onus on himself and what he could control he empowered himself to take responsibility and alter that outcome to the umpteenth of his ability (exercising his free will).
Apparently his uncle Tony had it drilled into him to always be humble. That's why he is what he is. When he got knocked out of the first round of Wimbledon he could have submitted in ease to the line that he was a clay/hard-court player who couldn't excel on grass. However, he went away and altered his serve to make it more powerful so he could obtain more cheap points, served and volleyed more often, forced himself to play on the baseline to be more aggressive instead of being deep and defensive in amongst other things. The next year he went and made the Final and the year after won the Championship.
Enter Safin and Federer. The former after continuing his failure at Wimbledon (knocked out in the 1st Rnd) blamed the stupid grass and said what an awful surface it was. The latter when he lost to Berdych in the quarters blamed everything but himself not to mention his sulk in the AO. It's widely acknowledge that he has to alter his game to have a chance of turning around his average record against Nadal. Up to this point he has not.
What does this all have to do with the Sharks in Gallen and Flanagan. By blaming refereeing decisions, luck or fate we dis-empower ourselves. We begin to feel comfort with the concept that we can't possibly win because things are against us, the NRL has it in for us or luck simply won't favour us. We lose our free-will (which we readily possess) and submit to these "inevitabilities". The sooner we take the attitude that come what may, no matter the obstacles that are put in front of us that we'll do whatever it takes and we'll do whatever within our power we can do to still win then we will benefit greatly. We could have played much better in that last 20mins and have won comfortably. That was within our control. That should be the absolute and only focus for the boys this week.
I don't want Gallen and Flanagan or anyone else to ever blame refereeing decisions ever again even if they don't favour us. To blame absolutely nothing but what we could do but did not do. That when we concede a rough penalty to accept it and tell the boys to double up because they won't get past us. That when the head hunters come at us to tell them to take a harder hit because we'll never succumb to their level. That in all matters on the Rugby League field we'll always play hard and fair, with virtue and integrity. Build character in your men Paul and they follow you and we will win a lot more games than we currently have.
Nice Post HD.....I agree entirely with what you have said here. While some may cry out we were unlucky at this point, and given a bad call at that point, the fact that remains is this: The team that knuckles down and gets the simple things right will create create their own luck through momentum and confidence in their own abilities - This is why I have admiration for the way Storm, Broncos and Dragons play as a "unit"....they may not have the individual standout flair of a Benji Marshall or a Jonathon Thurston or Chris Sandow but they work as a team and everyone steps up. There is no hesitation or "deer in the headlights" feeling when something doesn't quite go to plan - they get over it and on with the job, and they certainly don't fold when their best player (Gallen) has to leave the field......