I'm guessing it's Department of Housing you're talking about. Unfortunately some idiots (black or white) do destroy them and they are replaced. I thought they had changed the rules now, so that if you ruin the place you stay in you aren't eligible anymore...could be wrong but I thought they had toughened up a bit and made everyone have more inspections etc.
I don't know if people have been 'handed everything' but there definitely is a lack of hope, not only in Aboriginal communities but also poor communities. When I was first with my husband he actually believed he would never own a car, let alone a house. That thought had never entered my head, as I was pretty lucky, growing up with a mum and dad that both worked all our lives. Fix the hope (god only knows how) and fix the problem.
I did say last off topic, but thought I'd chime in with one more.
There was a far more talented and smart girl in my year at primary school, she the best of all of us in my year and in any normal environment should of gone on to be something or someone important, now I can't tell you exactly what happened to her after primary school (I went off to boarding school) but I can tell you whatever asperations she may of had where quashed by her family who we know (by fact) told her university was not an option becasue if she where to leave there would be less dole money coming in for the family, from 16 she started having kids witha deadbeat from next door and I think she has six now, which have been a right cash cow for the family.
A waste.
the second even sadder story was a few years later, young extremely talented girl that should of been the next kathy freeman, was killing everybody in athletics and seemingly swam like a dolphin, still holds most of the records for carnival in this area, this time a group of families tried to intervene in her raising because they knew when she hit high school age what would happen, my own parents even tried to unsuccessfully adopt her, but cos of the "past" that is a big no no these days (ofcourse)..
she would of got any scholarship she liked to any sporting high school, a group of parents got together and told her parents they would pay for her to go to a good private school, they knee jerked and like all aboriginal kids in this area was sent to a cummunity safe house in dubbo, where even the best kids go really really bad. I won't tell you what happened to that kid, but probably the biggest waste of a life I've ever known.
I have a hundred more stories just like this, and I don't blaim the people in these communities for doing it to their children, they don't know better, there are no thoughts of money, jobs, buying a house, further education.. just have babies, get dole, drink, repeat. I blaim the government for providing the environment that bred this sentiment.
ok finished now.